We don't hate children. We just don't want to have them
Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2024 5:14 pm
Since I was a kid, I never found children interesting for me. People told me, 'Wait until you're older, you'll change your mind.' But as I grew up, my feelings didn't change. Watching videos of kids doing things like eating or playing doesn't really affect me emotionally.
Some people don't like cats or dogs, and for me, it's children. I think having a child, limits your personal space. You're always stuck at home, and it's hard to find time for yourself. The real issues begin when there's no one to take care of a sick child who can't go to kindergarten and needs to stay home.
When I deal with other people's kids, I'm cool and don't act all mean. Sometimes these kids act a bit wild, get messy, or make noise. I get it, they're just being kids. But I don't act all high and mighty toward their parents. Some parents think everyone's into their kids, showing off pictures, even personal ones like a mom breastfeeding her baby. I just don't get why they think everyone cares about that stuff.
Now I'm 30 years old. People used to say as you get older, you'll want kids, but they don't tell me that anymore. I think being responsible and aware of life is important. Sometimes living on your own is tough, and having a child who also faces difficulties seems wrong to me. Neither you, nor the child can have a good life that way. Some families love having kids, and it brings them joy. I might not want to have children, but if someone else wants to and it makes them happy, that's great.
Some people think those who don't want kids, they hate children. that's not true! We're just regular people who prefer not to have children. Some people who want kids can be really pushy and try to make us agree with them. They think it's okay to tell you “When are you going to have children?” or they tell you that “It’s time to give birth!”. They should Let us make our own choices.
Some people don't like cats or dogs, and for me, it's children. I think having a child, limits your personal space. You're always stuck at home, and it's hard to find time for yourself. The real issues begin when there's no one to take care of a sick child who can't go to kindergarten and needs to stay home.
When I deal with other people's kids, I'm cool and don't act all mean. Sometimes these kids act a bit wild, get messy, or make noise. I get it, they're just being kids. But I don't act all high and mighty toward their parents. Some parents think everyone's into their kids, showing off pictures, even personal ones like a mom breastfeeding her baby. I just don't get why they think everyone cares about that stuff.
Now I'm 30 years old. People used to say as you get older, you'll want kids, but they don't tell me that anymore. I think being responsible and aware of life is important. Sometimes living on your own is tough, and having a child who also faces difficulties seems wrong to me. Neither you, nor the child can have a good life that way. Some families love having kids, and it brings them joy. I might not want to have children, but if someone else wants to and it makes them happy, that's great.
Some people think those who don't want kids, they hate children. that's not true! We're just regular people who prefer not to have children. Some people who want kids can be really pushy and try to make us agree with them. They think it's okay to tell you “When are you going to have children?” or they tell you that “It’s time to give birth!”. They should Let us make our own choices.